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Masturbation is probably one of the most personal things EVER — which is why people barely talk about it. I mean, is it just me, or does it seem like the word "masturbate" is basically taboo, also? Everyone does it, but for the most part but people don't talk about it!
I don't get it. My friends will spend hours describing the width of a guy's penis to me. But, I've never once heard a single story about them pleasuring themselves. Why do we keep masturbation such a secret? Is it because we view it as being too personal an activity to advertise? Or are we embarrassed to have to pleasure ourselves solo? Whatever the reason, I think it's time to start talking about masturbation more!
Because, I don't know about you, but it can be hard for me to "get there" on my own sometimes. And I would love to know how other women do it so I can steal their ideas ;). Which is exactly why I asked a few women how they get in the mood to masturbate and here's what they said.